Connecticut Women s Hall of Fame celebrates voice and vision

Every day, women break through old barriers and are achieving in new areas once thought of as the exclusive province of men. These breakthroughs encourage young women and girls to fulfill any dream they may have; it sends a message that they can accomplish anything.

One of the most important voices conveying that message is the Connecticut Women’s Hall of Fame, which each year inducts outstanding achievers, past and present, and then shares their stories with diverse audiences across the state and beyond.

By bringing their programs to schools, universities, corporations, libraries and women’s organizations, its programs fill a void that traditional curricula often fail to address, showing young women the breadth of possibilities open to them.

Now, in its 19th year, the Connecticut Women’s Hall of Fame’s past members include Ella T. Grasso, Lillian Vernon, Harriet Beecher Stowe, Sophie Tucker, Helen Keller and Katharine Hepburn.

This year’s event with more than 750 sponsors was held in the enormous Connecticut Convention Center in Hartford. Three remarkable women inducted this year: Anne Garrels, National Public Radio’s senior foreign correspondent; Annie Leibovitz, internationally famous photographer; and Faith Middleton of Branford, whose well-loved show on WNPR is in its 30th year.

Garrels, who had hoped to be there in person, was filmed in Russia because of some difficulty with being able to leave and then return in a timely fashion. This indomitable woman has been a foreign correspondent for 23 years and has covered conflicts around the world. She began her career at ABC where she became Moscow Bureau Chief. Later, she reported on events around the world, including China, Bosnia and the Middle East.

After the terrorist attacks of 9/11, she was one of the first reporters to reach Afghanistan where, because she was female, she was able to interview women as well as men. She said that she had found her voice listening to stories others had to tell.

I was particularly touched to learn that she is now in Russia writing a book and trying to heal from some of her wartime experiences, which have left her with post-traumatic symptoms. Her husband of many years, accepted her award for her and is an example of a remarkable man who was able to be a supportive partner in a marriage to a woman whose career often meant she was in danger and away from home for long periods of time. (I think there should be special awards for rare men like this).

The charming Middleton whose interviews have twice won her the nation’s highest honor in broadcast journalism, began her career in print journalism, working for newspapers and then becoming editor in chief of Connecticut Magazine. Always modest, she claims she just fell into broadcast journalism by a stroke of luck when Connecticut Public Radio called her with the idea for a show.

Now in her 30th year, “The Faith Middleton Show” airs six days a week in Connecticut, Rhode Island, Massachusetts and New York.

She made the most memorable comments of the evening and brought tears to my eyes when she praised the bravery of the Pakistani schoolgirl, Malala Yousafzai, as well as the father who stood by her.

Middleton said, “A father’s belief in his daughter is a powerful thing.” She also encouraged Malala to continue her fight ... that she was a link in the chain which connects us all.

The evening concluded with Annie Leibovitz, who was born in Waterbury and went on to become the photographer for famous writers, actors, political figures and a documentarian of the social landscape.

Much of her work has appeared in Vanity Fair and Vogue, and she has been designated a Living Legend by the Library of Congress. Voice and Vision Awards were given to 10 women who have used their voice and vision to express their passions and perspectives.

Special additional awards were the Ella T. Grasso Leadership in Action Grants, which went to Leah Livia Sarna, a Yale University philosophy major, and Christina Weaver, a University of St. Joseph nursing major.

I am indebted to and want to thank Laura Ward and Barbara Pearce who made arrangements so that I might personally experience this inspiring event. For more information about the CWHF and the learning tools they offer, visit www.cwhf.org.

Contact Jean Cherni, certified senior adviser for Senior Living Solutions and Pearce Plus, a helpful, full-service program for seniors contemplating a move, at jeancherni@sbcglobal.net or 15 The Ponds at 101 Hotchkiss Grove, Branford 06405.

Note to residents of Connecticut's continuing-care communities

Evergreen Woods, a Shoreline continuing-care retirement community, recently hosted a meeting of the National Continuing Care Residents Association, and since I help many residents who are considering a move to these types of communities, I was especially pleased to be invited.

I felt it was particularly important to learn about an organization which is composed of and represents the interests of those already living in continuing-care communities and, of course, reflects both their pleasures and problems with this particular lifestyle.

Basically, there are two types of retirement communities; those that offer independent and assisted living for a monthly rental fee, but do not offer nursing home care. The other model, known as continuing-care communities or CCRCs, offer lifetime care with a health-care or nursing-home component. For their often luxurious lifestyle, there is a substantial entrance fee as well as monthly charges.

These CCRs are generally either “for profit” (Evergreen Woods and Essex Meadows are this type) or the “nonprofits” (Whitney Center and Ashlar Village would fall in this category).

Katherine Pearson, professor of law at Penn State University and the educational director of its Elder Law and Consumer Protection Clinic, spoke at the gathering. She is an amazing woman and a much-needed voice on behalf of residents’ rights, which I learned, vary greatly from state to state.

Pearson had opened a Family Law Clinic at the law school in Pennsylvania 11 years ago, when a resident’s group from a local CCRC came to her because management was planning to double the size of the community in the same footprint, and the state regulator had told the group, they couldn’t do anything.

When Pearson was finally able to locate and look at the past annual reports of that community, she found they had indeed been filed, but the seals were not even broken; they had never been read by anyone in that office.

Pennsylvania has the third highest percentage of older adults, so it has attracted many different retirement communities. Since 2008, three CCRCs have filed for protection under the bankruptcy laws there. Of these, at least one was a “nonprofit” type.

Residents in one community lost the right to their refundable entrance fees. In others, there were larger increases in the monthly fees, after re-organization, as well as a cutting back of services.

Some states are recognizing the need for more proactive approaches to regulatory assessment. Oregon, for example, has amended its CCRC law to require greater disclosure of the identities of persons who have direct or indirect ownership or beneficial interests in CCRCs within the state and require resident representation on the governing boards of CCRCs.

Pearson believes that residents rights are one of the most effective ways to monitor communities, but she warns that with rights come responsibilities from the residents. They cannot control or be contentious, but should have a voice.

Connecticut currently does not have a resident’s bill of rights, but according to Ruth Walsh, the president of the Connecticut Continuing Care Resident’s Association, for the first time in many years, the group will be having regular meetings with the Department of Social Services (which absorbed the former separate Department of Aging).

It is hoped that they will facilitate changes so CCRCs here will be required to provide understandable financial information as well as mandating that Connecticut’s CCRC residents should have representation on the facilities governing boards.

If you are considering entering a continuing-care community, you should be aware of the laws governing them in the state where you live and have the facility’s disclosure statement examined by a well-versed, elder law attorney. Meanwhile, we are indebted to the hard-working group of senior residents, their sponsoring facilities and Pearson, all of whom are devoting time and effort to these important issues.

Contact Jean Cherni, certified senior adviser for Senior Living Solutions and Pearce Plus, a helpful, full-service program for seniors contemplating a move, at jeancherni@sbcglobal.net or 15 The Ponds at 101 Hotchkiss Grove, Branford 06405.

Wine tasting Thursday benefits Hamden Senior Wish Society

Not that long ago, in 2003 to be exact, a group of caring women founded a nonprofit, charitable organization because they wanted to grant the wishes of elderly residents who were on a limited income.

At the time, these women, Betty Wetmore, Rose Esposito, Robbie Juliano, Tammy Murphy, Eileen Denny, Laurie Kendall-Ellis and attorney Susan Nobleman, based their idea on Paul Newman’s Make A Wish Foundation, and they thought that seniors would request things like presents or trips for family members and grandchildren.

Instead, their hearts have been touched by how in need so many local seniors are and the wishes have been for medicine, dental care, tires or fuel for the car, eye glasses and home repairs. Some of the wishes have been provided by helpful sponsors such as the Eye Center, Prezioso Dental, Arden House, Elite Landscape and others.

In 2009, 43 individual wishes, (with a cost of no more than $300 each) for a total of $10,126.41, were granted with 100 percent of the donations going directly back into the community.

The Hamden Senior Wish Society is able to grant almost every wish it receives, and the process is a fairly simple one. To be eligible, you need to be a Hamden resident, 60 or older, with a maximum annual income of $20,000 for an individual or $25,000 for a couple.

Of course, wish requests are vetted by a board of directors and representatives from Elderly Services and the Community VNA in order to ensure that both wishes and the individuals are sincere and bona fide.

The Hamden Senior Wish Society believes that wishing is sharing hopes, and in order to thank seniors for their contributions and acknowledge their value to our community, there is one major fund-raiser a year. This year, it is a Wine Tasting and Auction on Thursday from 5:30-8 p.m. at the Laurel View Country Club on Shepard Avenue in Hamden. Tickets are $25, with company sponsorships at $250, which includes two event tickets and recognition in the program book. Tickets, auction donation items and “wish” application information may all be gotten by contacting Betty Wetmore at 203-376-9677 or Robbie Juliano at 203-980-3054.

What a wonderful way to enjoy a pleasant evening with neighbors while helping to brighten a senior resident’s day.

On a completely different topic, but one I feel strongly about, I was dismayed to hear Gov. Romney during the first presidential debate say that he would cut PBS funding. No matter what your political affiliation, voices need to be heard on behalf of this valuable public channel.

I think funding for all the arts needs to be increased, not cut, as has been the trend in recent years. When my children were small, I knew as long as they were watching Channel 13, I didn’t have to monitor what they were seeing and when Mr. Rogers was on, I watched with them.

Now, like many seniors who do not have money to pay for the expensive “extra” channels, I enjoy unbiased news, reruns of some old favorites, interesting scientific and cultural programs, ballet and opera — all for what is really a minuscule amount of money. Do without “Faulty Towers,” “As Time Goes By,” “Keeping Up Appearances” and “Downton Abbey”? Not until they remove the television clicker from these cold, dead fingers.

Contact Jean Cherni, certified senior adviser for Senior Living Solutions and Pearce Plus, a helpful, full-service program for seniors contemplating a move, at jeancherni@sbcglobal.net or 15 The Ponds at 101 Hotchkiss Grove, Branford 06405.

Do drop by the Orchard House in Branford on Oct. 14

A wonderful opportunity for everyone to learn about the very special place known as Orchard House, at 421 Shore Drive in Branford, comes next Sunday afternoon.

From 2 to 5, it’s having a 30th anniversary celebration.

Lt. Gov. Nancy Wyman and Kristen Cusato, former news anchor at WTNH-8, will be on hand, as well as yours truly. Refreshments, entertainment and a silent auction will be part of the excitement.

The celebration will honor many of the individuals and organizations whose support over the years has meant so much.

Founding director Thomas Romano opened the door on the lower level of the First Baptist Church on Main Street, Branford, to two clients when this adult day-care center started. Two years and 12 clients later, the center moved to its present home, where it provides services to residents of Branford, East Haven, Guilford, Hamden, New Haven, North Branford, North Haven and West Haven.

The men and women who attend Orchard House range in age from 60 to close to 100. The people lovingly cared for there usually have more extensive needs for care than can be accommodated at most senior centers, which serve independent, self-sufficient individuals. Orchard House is open during the week from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. and on weekends from 9 to 3.

I spoke recently with Stephanie Evans-Ariker, the charming nurse who is now the executive director of Orchard House. She has held executive positions in geriatric home care and assisted living and is passionate about the full range of services Orchard House is able to provide. A fleet of wheelchair-accessible vans provide round-trip transportation from clients’ homes.

Warmly greeted by an aide, a senior upon arrival is given a snack and then can participate in a variety of activities, such as armchair aerobics, tai chai or yoga. Several registered nurses are on the premises to dispense needed medications.

New members receive a thorough health assessment so that ongoing monitoring and nutritional planning can follow. Special support can be provided for those with dementia or Alzheimer’s. During the day, a hot meal is served, and there is music therapy, entertainment, arts and crafts and a chance to enjoy visiting pets or the extensive, lovely gardens with walking paths.

For those who would prefer to just relax or watch their favorite TV program, there is a lounge area with plush recliners and a state-of-the-art television.

The Orchard House mission statement says it all: “To restore, maintain or improve our clients’ abilities and enhance their quality of life by providing a home-like setting that encourages independence and friendship.

For information, go to www.theorchardhouse.org or call 203-481-7110.

If you are a caregiver who is stressed out managing your life and the life of a loved one, the Orchard House Medical Adult Day Care Center can offer a cost-effective, high-quality solution. Too many seniors are institutionalized prematurely because relatives are not able to handle the responsibilities of home or work requirements and also the ongoing needs of a beloved relative.

Contact Jean Cherni, certified senior adviser for Senior Living Solutions and Pearce Plus, a full-service program for seniors contemplating a move, at jeancherni@sbcglobal.net or 15 The Ponds at 101 Hotchkiss Grove, Branford 06405.